leading and styling

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Subject: leading and styling
From: Bob
Date: Wednesday 18th September 2002, 7:39 am

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Doesn't sound intentional to me, she probably didn't realise. Sounds to me like you weren't getting ready for the lead in time. You shouldn't be "reaching for her hand" you should be presenting your hand for her to take in plenty of time.
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True, but I have seen women intentionally moving out of a lead when they didn't want to dance with the guy. Sometimes it is because the guy is genuinely awful and uncomfortable to dance with, sometimes just at a significantly lower level and the girl is up her self. Though those girls don't normally agree to the dance in the first place.
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A load of the time, you men blame us for doing something wrong, when you could sort it out by improving your lead and timing a bit.
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It cuts both ways.

How do I get women to dance? rejected (Reg Ekted) Thursday 5th September 2002, 8:07 pm
- How do I get women to dance? lizard (Lizard) Saturday 7th September 2002, 7:18 pm
  - How do I get women to dance? sweavo (Steve Carter) Tuesday 11th February 2003, 6:27 pm
  - How to get asked to dance.... Tom Sunday 8th September 2002, 7:43 pm
    - How to get asked to dance.... fenix (GP) Monday 9th September 2002, 8:51 am
    - How to get asked to dance.... fenix (GP) Monday 9th September 2002, 8:51 am
      - How to get asked to dance....   Dave F (Dave Fenton)   Monday 9th September 2002, 10:40 am
        
        How to get asked to dance....   fenix (GP)   Monday 9th September 2002, 10:50 am
        
        How to get asked to dance....   Tom   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 7:04 pm
        
        How to get asked to dance....   fenix (GP)   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 8:59 am
        
        How to get asked to dance....   Tom   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 8:19 pm
        How to get asked to dance....   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 10:25 am
- How do I get women to dance? Dave G Friday 6th September 2002, 3:23 pm
  - How do I get women to dance? Jazzman (O Akman) Friday 6th September 2002, 5:35 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Dave G Monday 9th September 2002, 2:50 pm
- How do I get women to dance? Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke) Friday 6th September 2002, 1:06 pm
- How do I get women to dance? Pres (Preston Palon) Friday 6th September 2002, 10:01 am
  - How do I get women to dance? rejected (Reg Ekted) Sunday 8th September 2002, 5:11 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Pres (Preston Palon) Monday 9th September 2002, 11:44 am
      - How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 11:50 am
        
        How do I get women to dance?   Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 3:49 pm
        How do I get women to dance?   Pres (Preston Palon)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 2:42 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 4:56 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   les (Les)   Saturday 14th September 2002, 2:49 pm
        
        leading and styling   laura (Laura Williams)   Tuesday 17th September 2002, 1:25 pm
        
        leading and styling   andy   Saturday 21st September 2002, 11:52 am
        
        leading and styling   laura (Laura Williams)   Wednesday 25th September 2002, 10:00 am
        
        leading and styling   andy   Sunday 29th September 2002, 11:18 pm
        
        leading and styling   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Monday 30th September 2002, 10:27 am
        
        leading and styling   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Monday 23rd September 2002, 10:03 am
        
        >> leading and styling   Bob   Wednesday 18th September 2002, 7:39 am
        leading and styling   Jazzman (O Akman)   Tuesday 17th September 2002, 1:43 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   Pres (Preston Palon)   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 9:59 am
        How do I get women to dance?   viv-alasalsa (Viv)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 6:52 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   Tom   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 8:28 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Thursday 12th September 2002, 9:56 am
        
        How do I get women to dance?   Tom   Friday 13th September 2002, 2:47 pm
        How do I get women to dance?   viv-alasalsa (Viv)   Thursday 12th September 2002, 1:21 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Thursday 12th September 2002, 1:46 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? ian (Ian Finch) Sunday 8th September 2002, 10:44 pm
  - How do I get women to dance? ian (Ian Finch) Friday 6th September 2002, 1:54 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke) Friday 6th September 2002, 2:51 pm
- How do I get women to dance? fenix (GP) Friday 6th September 2002, 9:02 am
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