How do I get women to dance?

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Subject: How do I get women to dance?
From: Jazzman (O Akman)
Date: Friday 6th September 2002, 5:35 pm

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If you say "do you want to dance?", it's easy for her to say "no".
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If you say "let's dance", you're making it more difficult for her to say "no", but there's still an implied question in there.
If you say "this is a great track, come on", take her hand and start towards the dance floor, it's much more difficult for her to say "no", because there's no opportunity.
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The adage about horses and river springs to mind. Juat because you are both on the dance floor and have assumed the position, so to speak, does not mean you get a dance. All she has to do is not follow!

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        How to get asked to dance....   Tom   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 8:19 pm
        How to get asked to dance....   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Wednesday 11th September 2002, 10:25 am
- How do I get women to dance? Dave G Friday 6th September 2002, 3:23 pm
  - >> How do I get women to dance? Jazzman (O Akman) Friday 6th September 2002, 5:35 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Dave G Monday 9th September 2002, 2:50 pm
- How do I get women to dance? Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke) Friday 6th September 2002, 1:06 pm
- How do I get women to dance? Pres (Preston Palon) Friday 6th September 2002, 10:01 am
  - How do I get women to dance? rejected (Reg Ekted) Sunday 8th September 2002, 5:11 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Pres (Preston Palon) Monday 9th September 2002, 11:44 am
      - How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 11:50 am
        
        How do I get women to dance?   Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 3:49 pm
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        How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Tuesday 10th September 2002, 4:56 pm
        
        How do I get women to dance?   les (Les)   Saturday 14th September 2002, 2:49 pm
        
        leading and styling   laura (Laura Williams)   Tuesday 17th September 2002, 1:25 pm
        
        leading and styling   andy   Saturday 21st September 2002, 11:52 am
        
        leading and styling   laura (Laura Williams)   Wednesday 25th September 2002, 10:00 am
        
        leading and styling   andy   Sunday 29th September 2002, 11:18 pm
        
        leading and styling   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Monday 30th September 2002, 10:27 am
        
        leading and styling   Mr T (lindale thompson)   Monday 23rd September 2002, 10:03 am
        
        leading and styling   Bob   Wednesday 18th September 2002, 7:39 am
        leading and styling   Jazzman (O Akman)   Tuesday 17th September 2002, 1:43 pm
        
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        How do I get women to dance?   ian (Ian Finch)   Thursday 12th September 2002, 1:46 pm
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  - How do I get women to dance? ian (Ian Finch) Friday 6th September 2002, 1:54 pm
    - How do I get women to dance? Cosilongo (Matthew Cooke) Friday 6th September 2002, 2:51 pm
- How do I get women to dance? fenix (GP) Friday 6th September 2002, 9:02 am
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